A God-Given Survival Skill
One of the most misunderstood parables Jesus told is found in Luke 16:1–9, the story of the dishonest (or shrewd) manager. At first glance, it seems surprising that the manager would receive praise after being caught mishandling his master’s resources. But Jesus wasn’t praising his dishonesty—He was highlighting his wisdom in preparing for what was ahead.
“The master commended the dishonest manager because he had acted shrewdly. For the people of this world are more shrewd in dealing with their own kind than are the people of the light.”
— Luke 16:8 (NIV)
When the manager realized he was about to lose his job, he acted quickly. He strengthened relationships with people who could help him once he was no longer employed. He understood a simple truth: no one thrives alone.
This is a lesson many of us need today.
Building genuine relationships isn’t manipulation or opportunism. It’s a survival skill. God created us for community, and throughout Scripture, we see that blessings, opportunities, encouragement, and provision often flow through people.
The manager recognized that his future depended not only on what he possessed but also on the connections he had cultivated. Jesus used this example to challenge His followers to be just as intentional about preparing for the future—using wisdom, foresight, and the resources entrusted to them.
Too often, we isolate ourselves, believing we can do everything on our own. Yet there may come seasons when we need advice, a recommendation, prayer, encouragement, or someone to open a door we cannot open ourselves. Healthy relationships become part of God’s provision during those moments.
The key is to build those connections with sincerity. Invest in people before you need them. Be generous with your time, your kindness, your encouragement, and your support. Celebrate others. Serve where you can. Be trustworthy. The strongest networks are built on genuine care, not self-interest.
As believers, we should be known for wisdom as much as kindness. Wisdom looks ahead. Wisdom prepares. Wisdom values relationships because people matter to God.
So don’t wait until you’re in a crisis to start building meaningful connections. Reach out. Encourage someone. Be present. Show up consistently. The seeds you plant in relationships today may become the support God uses tomorrow.
Remember, the lesson of the wise manager isn’t about being dishonest—it’s about being prepared. In a world full of uncertainty, cultivating godly relationships is not only wise; it’s one of the practical ways God equips us to navigate life’s challenges.
Invest in people. Walk in wisdom. Trust God with your future.
